Hi 2t2m, I'm sorry I didn't see your post here. Thank you so much for your support. Even though we don't wish to be here it helps so much to have others going through the same pain.

I am slowly, very slowly getting to the point of realizing I need to let him go, more than I thought I was. I cannot fix him, I cannot make him want to love me, only he can do this, for himself.

Thank you so much, for some reason I am crying now as I read your supportive thoughts. But it's a good cry, realizing I MUST let him go.


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.