Rolling in the deep...

[wishing, hoping]

Thanks all. I know she's not the better person but something must have really snapped in his head for him to think she is better than me. But that's not my problem.

My SIL has been texting up a storm. She is so angry H brought OW and showed her off to the soccer team. I said I didn't know what he thought he was showing off because she isn't anything to show off. No one thought much of her. No one is going to think she's better. The kids sure as heck don't think she's better than me. At all. I guess my other SIL is giving him an earful too. Apparently H and OW are attached at the hip. It reminds me of teenagers who are so "in love" and can't go anywhere or do anything without being with the other person. It's pathetic.

So now H's work has initiated a policy that any spouses who work and are eligible for healthcare benefits through their workplace will not be eligible to be on H's healthcare plan. So I forwarded the email to my HR department and I cannot get on my work's healthcare since we don't have open enrollment. I need to become officially divorced to make that happen. So if his company refuses to let me continue on their plan I have no healthcare. I am choosing not to become upset at this point, but it does concern me. I am sure things will work out for the best, but I am not losing my head about it.

WH