Yes AS, I understand...What are your thoughts on the fact such as in my sitch, W is living 900 miles from me so there is no chance of seeing each other in person. As Cadet has mentioned if she is indeed in MLC she would be called a vanisher. She has however initiated limited email contact but nothing more.
Still cant say MLC or WAW for certain but W does seem willing to just move on without any discussion. I still have a hard time dealing with that...