I did decide not to ask him to leave...yet. I was having a hurt moment and recognized that and didn't want to act off of my emotions. My PMA did improve yesterday and things at home went much better. I am getting better at recognizing my strong emotional moments and being able to step back so that is a huge positive for em. I have been so emotionally involved in helping my H feel better I have become too attached. So I need to let go and let him go through his journey.


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.