I did decide not to ask him to leave...yet. I was having a hurt moment and recognized that and didn't want to act off of my emotions. My PMA did improve yesterday and things at home went much better. I am getting better at recognizing my strong emotional moments and being able to step back so that is a huge positive for em. I have been so emotionally involved in helping my H feel better I have become too attached. So I need to let go and let him go through his journey.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.