Btw, Jon, I am not saying don't be dim or scarce, I just don't think that should be your focus. I think you need to focus on how you interact with your w. There always seems to be so much focus from people bringing out 2x4s about going dark and weather or not you actually go dark that your real issues may be missed.


Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)