So I ask myself, should I keep up the NC, should I do something else, or should I simply just give up?
3 months of NC is a long time. Remember cheeseless tunnels, in DB'ing you're supposed to reevaluate your progress now and then, and keep doing what works and stop doing what doesn't work. I don't think another month or 6 months or year of NC is going to "improve" your position any, so at this point you may want to reach out. That does NOT mean sending her "I miss you heaps" though. You've got to crawl before you can walk and walk before you can run! Maybe something like "hey, haven't talked to you in a while, I hope you are doing well!" Your goal for now should be to establish a friendship, nothing more.
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I finished with my DB coach a while ago, as no progress was being made with the W, but have been wondering lately whether to have one more call before moving back home?
I think you should try something new/ different with your W, and a coach can help you determine what that should be, so yes I think it's a good idea.
