NTX - that's exactly what I'm doing. When W texted me last night about not wanting divorce, I said just the couple of "I don't knows"; I was actually honest. At this point, I have no idea what to do. I am not contacting her again.
I'm more than willing to admit that my steps thus far haven't done a whole lot - not sure why W is still so connected other than a ton of prayer going up for her.
Although, if she did walk in and say "I want to work on the marriage" - what IS the next step? I know the canned answers are counseling, dating, taking it slow, etc; but what are good baby steps on rebuilding trust? Is it coffee dates and no talking about R?
