I was away from the computer all weekend and just got caught up.
Two things I wanted to mention: You said that during the coffee get together that you were DB'ing like a champ. Technically you probably weren't - you went to her apartment for pete's sake. That's pursuing.
Second, you mentioned that she is very confusing. I am guessing that you are very confusing to her as well. Just read through all of these posts, one day you are going dark, the next you have a long text convo, then you say your are going dark again, then you go have coffee, then you say you are ready for the divorce (I think you've said that a few times before).
Anyway, I don't want to get out the 2x4 but just wanted to point out that maybe you should just take a deep breath for a while and really just focus on being happy with you.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012
