Maybe some of you can help me understand what my boys are going through. They are cool, calm, relatively normal when it's the three of us, but go into weird mode as soon as W comes around. You know how young guys start acting when you bring a young lady into the mix? It's the exact same dynamic. Goofing off, laughing, doing things to get attention, etc. This is their mother though. I can't grasp the reasoning behind it.


M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later