Hello! 20 year marriage teetering... (part V)

[willbwell]

AS, has your w given you the papers yet? did you get served? my h has filed. I said I did not want to be served. he texted this AM to say he'd call later about how to proceed. he justs wants to be done. he doesn't seem to care how this impacts me and kids. he doesn't want to go there. I think he expects me to just go along...I do not want to be ugly. after a year of being s, still can't keep the emotion out when discussing it. he thinks boys will be ok. has not once asked them how they feel about this. they go to dinner, lunch, movies- that's it. never hanging out time...
good job with your d. my boys know they can count on me