Better to love or be loved?

[willbwell]

so get a text from h this AM saying I'll call later to discuss how to proceed(with D)
what am I supposed to reply>? ok, thanks, have a nice day!

in the same text he then goes on to say Good morning to d. (he texts her on my phone, she does not have a phone- I know time for her to get her own phone) asks did she sleep well and says he did. Amazing, no consideration one bit for how this could make me feel!