hi WR, I too have boys ages 20 & 17. h is no longer legally responsible for s20(who is having the hardest time in dealing with all of this)h will only be responsible for s17 for one more year. they are still children. they still need our care. we don't drop them at the curb and say 'have a nice life'.
our thanksgiving is coming up. last year I did invite h to come for the meal. been thinking I won't this year. time to start a new normal. my h has cut off contact with his side of family. not that they are supportive of h. it is hard. the costs for his 'freedom' have been so high. We are champions! we can get through. Don't forget it. Show your boys!
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13
