One giant leap forward! - Part 8

[T1000]

Hi T

Good to hear from you!

This one is great! I will try to look at myself this way

I'm getting better at being my own cheerleader.

I don't know if W is still with OM2 and if he will be there, not sure how to ask that question. I would love some input on this.

Well, what do you know?
As I recall you saw something on FB but also that you do not know that much anyway.
Has W ever mentioned OM2?

Somebody will properly tell me/you that this isn’t of any importance but it would be to me. Still the XW and I would be curious and interested in knowing what goes on around her and especially the children.

I have made an agreement several years ago with XW1 that if S10 was introduced to somebody we would tell upfront.
If you are not attending the birthday I recommend that you just leave it be for now.

Hi F,

She has never mentioned him. I could create a Facebook account and go snooping but I don't want to. I don't want to snoop and I don't want to subject myself to anything that could rock my PMA.

I'm fine asking any question, I'm just curious to what other people think that question should be.

I didn't send anything back to this as I was full of anger ready to spew about her not trying her best at anything but I left it.

Well done!
If at some point you want to speak then find a time without anger.

It was brutal! It's setting me off writing this.

I can almost feel your hurt! I have had experiences like this sometimes now and it kills a bit of me every time. You did the only thing we can do: Love them unconditionally and show them!

Yes, that is all we can do. It's horrible to rationlize it by thinking he will get used to missing me though.

It sounds like an emotional weekend, T!
You are doing great in handling yourself.
You are a great father and I can see why this lady boosted your PMA – but T, this is who you are and have been for so long!


Stay strong!

F

You're right. Just something about hearing it from two attractive woman in a similar situation to my W but also work on top of their busy lives.

Thanks for the input F!