Learning to detach

[Whiterose]

Hi Portia. H exchanged our honda for his dream truck (new to him as well) and I found out when I saw it listed as one of his assetts on his declaration. Just found out tonight, I had been thinking this had happened for the last week though, that he has rented a basement suit on the Shore. He's always wanted to move back there.....brief story. He moved here from another province after his dad finished his last affair and brought the wife and kids over and they lived on the Shore until H turned 16/17 when his parent's declared bankruptcy for the second time and they had to move into his sister's basement suite in a suburb a 50 minute drive away. We were actually looking at houses to buy there before H left. He really wanted to move back but it's only accessible via two bridges that can be a commuters nightmare. I guess he can be happy he's finally back?!?!?

I'm trying to become self sufficient but honestly how can these men just leave and abandon their responsibility with no real consequences?? It boggles my mind and explains a large reason why there are so many screwed up children and adults!

S18 is physically a man but due to his ADHD and learning diaabilititues his mental age is closer to 16 and it causes him a lot of stress and he begins to spin. It's a vicious cycle.