2 year A confirmed

[complicated]

Had a great weekend with my daughter. She was having a tough time since breaking up with bf and so we had a nice mom/daughter weekend.

Took her to get mani/pedi's and her hair cut and asked her if she wanted to talk about things. She said "not really" that right now she would like to not think about it.

I told her whatever she wanted but eventually she needs to talk about it with someone that problems or unhappiness doesn't go away by ignoring it. She said that while she is in season she just didn't want to deal with it.

On a good note she had a great game. I only hope that in time she will address her issues. She is an awful lot like h in that she holds things in and she doesn't like to hurt people or have them mad at her.

Problem is now H thinks everyone walked all over him and is blaming me for all of his problems. I don't want D19 to do the same thing.

All of the girls are talking to H as he has said he and OW are no longer together. I will believe it when I see it. But I am glad he is spending time with them. They deserve it.

I went to see MIL and FIL Friday just to spend some time with them. FIL has dementia but enjoys it when I come over. H is still living there and he was doing some yard work for them when I got there. I said Hi but then went in and spent time with them. He really didn't say much to me then left to run some errands. He even text me to see if I needed money - couldn't believe it but thanked him for asking.

He didn't go to D19s game. Said he was tired of driving a lot (3 hours each way) and since it was maybe going to rain he wasn't coming up. It ended up being her best game this season (has been dealing with an injury) and it was a very nice evening. His loss.

Right now I feel like being there for my kids takes my mind off him, at least a little. Keeps me busy anyway.