I find that my H and I both tend to approach each other very timidly since BD. It's like we are afraid of each other and always walking on eggshells. I guess my H and I have both put up walls when it comes to talking to each other.. time to break down those walls!!
BTW.. is your thread title a Joni Mitchell song? Love it!
-cp
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.