I'm sorry, Rkyfat. It does sound all wrong with you being fleeced and her having it so easy. I'm not surprised you can't stand the sight of her.

Maybe you could see Dubai as a short(isn) term sacrifice for the good of the longer term. Your times with S12 in the future will be better if you're not under financial pressure and strain. It would also mean having a break from your W.

Sending you much courage.

Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012