Do I tell her how I feel 1 year on?

[Wendylon]

LJC, I'm afraid your email goes against all DB advice. I really don't see what you will gain from sending it.

As hotwheelsaust points out it certainly isn't going to help your cause. Don't send it unless someone comes up with a really good reason why you should. Maybe writing it and posting it here is enough to get it off your chest. I doubt she is interested in how you feel at this point.

Hang in there and good luck!