"homework" from job - Hi Job, thank you

[LoisB]

I'm with you PudMuddle. My H reconnected with the OW after some months apart and he is back in "love" and seeing him so happy makes me ill. He allowed the OW to move into his apartment over the summer.

Just remember this is a rollercoaster ride and right now our H's are on the upswing. What goes up, however, must come down. Especially, on this mid-life journey.

Last January, he considered that drugs and partying were the cause of his unhappiness, that could be!!! But, somewhat let go of the OW and came back into our lives.

Last spring, he was convinced his old job was the cause of his unhappiness.

Mid-summer, he hated his new job.

Now, he's convinced our marriage has been the source of his unhappiness over the last 20 years and she, apparently, understands him and gives him something I was never able to.

He is content. And TAN!!! I hate that the most. He looks good and seems happy.

But, it's only a matter of time before the demons rear their ugly heads again.

I feel your pain though. I do.

Heather