One of the biggest questions I ask myself (and am sure everyone does) is, have I done everything I could/should have? For the last 3 months, no contact from the W, nothing. In that time I sent one text saying "I miss you heaps".
This is my thorn in the rose so to speak. While I am moving on and improving myself, this simple no contact by the W is my mountain to get over, and I don't know how to do it.
I get no info about the W from sons or anyone else (not that I am expecting it), but simply have no idea what she is up to or doing.
So I ask myself, should I keep up the NC, should I do something else, or should I simply just give up?

Again, I am just thinking out aloud and won't be making any rash decisions.

I finished with my DB coach a while ago, as no progress was being made with the W, but have been wondering lately whether to have one more call before moving back home?

ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.