Please hear that. You are so competitive and self absorbed that even your child is trying to protect your sore feelings. She's excited about a baby, an innocent little fellow human, but has to hide that around you. Which one is being more grownup?

By the sound of your post you would produce a baby if you could, to equalize your daughters' two houses. That sounds ridiculous! You've got really tough feelings to process, and you've got to feel your way through them. I hope you can rise above your immature gut reactions so your kids can share their joys and sorrows without worrying about which subjects are off-limits with dad.

Your d's have each other, they werent lacking for a sibling. You will always be their irreplaceable dad, whether you have an xbox or a baby or a million dollars, or nothing. Find your deeper value and share it with your kids. They're learning life from you.


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.