Thanks for the advice. I will bite my tongue on this one.
You are both right and I know saying anything about OM will not serve to bring her closer but only push her away.
I am so thankful for this site and all of its members. It helps me stay focused on DBing when all I want to do is yell and say to her, "what the Hell are you thinking". Thank you for keeping me grounded.
Our first court date regarding D is on Tuesday. I will let you know how it goes.