Thank you so much for your thoughts job.

I read this and it touched my heart deeply and made me cry. It touches me that someone really understands the pain I am going through. It touched me because I know you are right.

I so want to ask him to leave the house because this is his second A and it is hard to have him here being happy and just ignoring the pain. I just don't have the strength right now to make this boundary. How do I set such a boundary? We are in the early stages of the A, 4 months now, and so far just getting on with our lives, not much else. It hurts.

I am seeing a DB coach and need to make the next appointment.


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.