Hardened Heart 5 - 6 Months into this....

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I don't think LBS ever knew what hit them.
My situation was that there were signs which i'm not alert enough to pick up on. I thought my W had finally accepted me as i am when the nagging stopped. I didn't know it then but i see it now.
It's like a tsunami. Out in the oceans it looks calm but when it reaches shore, the devastation it leaves behind is so immense. It takes years to rebuild and recover.