Oh I know it was all wrong, totally. I still have bitterness obviously. I am working through the hurt, to get to the other side. Even though this convo was all wrong, it is the first time in 6 years we have actually talked about any of this stuff for a period of time. I did not initiate it, he did. I acknowledged many times in writing this that I was not db'ing and that I was doing all the talking. He actually held my hand on the couch. We both know we are working with mountains of hurt. And despite it not being db we both felt we had things to get out. I can now remember this and work on what I need to fix on myself in future sitch.
It didn't feel like a major backslide, sometimes we have to step back to move forward.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
