I hope you realize that even though you disagree with our understanding of things it was our way of showing you another way of thinking. And in fact maybe things weren't changing because you weren't. Or at least not in the way you understood.
I really do hope that you can forgive one day because your kids will see it and carry it on into their lives. I suggest that you actually continue to communicate with her and not avoid her as you have been. There is so much resentment in your post that your kids can pick it up.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
Trust me Mr Bond, I have changed. This is a life changing event. I am a forgiving person. Don't confuse forgiveness with tolerance. I no longer am willing to tolerate the way she treats me. This is not out of bitterness, it is simply realizing that I deserve to be treated better.
