2old, I have said this before I am sure, but I am still asking the same questions as you. Except it is 12 months down the track. While I can acknowledge my behaviours, the sake of everything going from normal to total shock was also a matter of hours. Having the family and friends be just as surprised and shocked, with none of them seeing this coming is icing on the cake. I am still bothered by the same question you ask yourself. What happened? Why? Why did she not even ask to go to MC? All I can do is accept this is now her journey. Do I stay and wait? Who knows.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
