AS, I know what your saying to be true. Let me ask of you what you think about staying dark and n/c, You pretty much know my sitch and how I my contacts with WAW seem to do nothing more than garner a canned response of ty's. Did you experience such a time with your WAW where there was a serious lack of contacts and or cold responses?
I think I read how you were surprised that she left or was leaving you. My thing is I had no idea what was about to happen and how everything was seemingly normal only to all change in a matter of just a few hours. To this day 6 months later I am still bothered by this.
I understand there may never be a straight answer but just to try and put it in perspective is where I am at today. 13 years together 6 married and I never saw this coming. To go from normal to her behaving like she is even today is baffling to me. If you read this Cadet, no I havent figured out how to drink coffee with a fork while hanging from the ceiling yet...lol..
I really try to accept the out to lunch or in a deep fog theory for a reasoning but none the less its still confusing...Oh well, just journaling here tonite thinking about how I got here. Funny how it seems the ones who you really figure would not behave like this end up doing just that.....Lesson learned right there I would imagine...
