M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I hope and pray that you get what you truly desire.
Me too... That would be W giving me my B-day spankings of course! Ok, maybe next year.
Originally Posted By: rH
Btw, why were you up so late? Did W not come home yet or did she already come home and do the late night debrief? Or is it none of my business?
Actually, she came home early, before I did. She was in the shower and then went to bed without a word. I've always liked to stay up and have a couple beers and read on non-work nights. Not just DB stuff. My latest favorite read is Mr Money Mustache. How to live happily and retire early and not be a complainypants.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
FY, it occurs to me that limerence and MLC, while in the denial, anger & replay stages are opposite.
In limerence, the OP can't do anything wrong.
In MLC, the spouse can't do anything right!
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway
That's why the best thing we can do is concentrate on OUR life, and make it as fulfilling as possible. If they want back in... great! If not, still great!
We only have so much time here. We must make the most of each day.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
" That's why the best thing we can do is concentrate on OUR life, and make it as fulfilling as possible. If they want back in... great! If not, still great!
Yes!!! Agreed! DBing helps so much with that. Either way... we will survive!
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
