Hi Rkyfat,

Hope you've gained some clarity about what to do. The finances sound like the biggest problem at the moment. Your W doesn't sound v grounded in that department.

The last post of yours on my thread was really useful. Thank you for that. I've thought about what you said a lot. Now, you need to apply your wisdom to your own sitch.

Please keep updating and I wish you luck with it all. I hope that you're managing to keep a PMA.


Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012