WR, You did the right thing in texting. You would check on a friend in the hospital. Just because your h is acting like a butt right now, doesn't mean that you don't care.
I wouldn't go there unless he requests your presence. For now, wait to see if he texts you. Will your son be going there to visit w/him?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
