hi WR...not sure if this is the answer you are looking for, but here is my .02:

Since he made the choice to no longer have YOU in his life, then why should he get YOU? (this is what I am working on in my life/R with h)...its hard and goes against my good nature ...but, THEY chose this NOT US!!.... am I right?

Dying to hear what the vets say!!

Good luck.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)