Me 11 months on.

[hotwheelsaust]

Couple of more questions to put to the DB group, please humour me.
I know most of the answers, just want to confirm them. And no, I am not wanting desperately to do them.

1. Do I tell the W I am transferring? If so, when, as I leave around the 16th December?
2. My BD anniversary will be on the 24th October, do I send any letter, last chance requests etc.
3. My marriage anniversary is on the 25th November, same thing, do I do anything, send anything or simply ignore?
4. Do I buy presents for the in-laws at Christmas, or ignore them as they have done to me over the last few months?
5. Do I ask/request about the solicitor and why no reply? Or simply let it go until I get a reply? At this stage I don't need to worry about anything, but, in Australia a de-facto can apply for half of the assets (if she is in a relationship).

At this stage in my sitch, I am still standing by a lot of my original ideas: I was not the one who walked out, I will not start the solicitor or force the sharing of assets, and lastly I will not file for divorce. If the W is happy to do all those things, good on her, but I will not do that, as I still have the belief that things can be worked out (maybe a silly belief). I still have the knowledge that if my sons ever ask about the sitch, I will at least feel that I did all possible for the sitch and that I did not force any issues.