Just the simple fact of could I learn to live with her again, to spend each day with her again, to TRUST her again. Then there is the "can I put up with her family again" after all the poop that has/is happening with them. Does anyone else have these type of questions they ask themselves?
Yes I have these issues all the time. I think Trust takes time and I think if you do what others have done on here, the main objectives are MC and complete disconnection from the other person. The other bit about family is what worries me as well. Not his family as I know my MIL is going to be ok about us getting back together (if ever!), but from my family. They've already told me that they won't accept him back into the family again. I know it's between the two of us, but it's hard when your family aren't supporting you. I think this would be one of the reasons why H won't come back.
You're worrying to much about the EA/PA and as said above, she needs to lose all contact with her OM and MC will sort out a lot of issues such as why she left, etc. These things are on my mind at times as well, it's hard for them not to be! However we're moving on and that's what counts I've never heard of Bathurst race. My cousin lives in Williamstown and she's not mentioned it. She recently mentioned about the tall ships docking in the harbour!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
