F is right. There were times that I truly wanted to work on the M even when I was involved with OM. I know that sounds ridiculous but it is true. I didn't let him (OM) go because I didn't have much faith in things working out long-term with H at that point but I honestly wanted to work on it.
Was there any thing H could have done at that point, or did you just need your space to figure things out?
me: 30 XW:28 tgthr:4 m:1 no kids BD: June 2013 D: Jan 2014