WH, Just as I suspected. She sounds a lot like the woman my h hooked up with. Nothing special and yes, the exact opposite of what you are. He wanted to be a hero or a "white knight" rescuing her because she apparently has health issues. He wants her to look up to him and adore him. You stand up for yourself and I bet nutty buddy's ow let's him make all of the decisions for right now.
Don't ever think she's better than you because she's not. She was just something different and he's Mr. Super Hero Nutty Buddy to her. Nothing more.
Well the moms will certainly have a lot to discuss tonight and I'm sure the ow was so happy to be out in the public w/your h. Unfortunately, they didn't get the reaction they wanted from you. LOL! Nice work.
BTW, I think he one stupid man to parade her around and you aren't even divorced, much less separated. I agree that they have certainly made @sses of themselves today. LOL! He may try to bait you into an argument about her being there...don't buy into it. Just say "H, you got yourself a real good one" and leave it at that.
Hang in there.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
