She is nothing of what I imagined. Just an ordinary woman who is a bit on the plump side and who has a personality of a dish pan. She walks with a cane and H assisted her across the field. Ugh. I asked S if she always uses a cane and he said no, sometimes she has crutches. Even better.
When we were introduced it was like two strange dogs meeting. Not comfortable for sure. She had her engagement ring on too. She wore tight fitting clothes that clung to her. I know I am probably sounding catty but it's my observation so there.
She is not very animated and kind of mechanical in her conversations. I am really outgoing and boisterous. She is the exact opposite of me.
I don't see what the charm is. I didn't find her to be warm and kind. Rather coolish and tending to steer the conversations toward her. She talked to another soccer mom and again turned it into all about her.
This same mom pulled me aside and asked me who she was. I told her. She just looked at me and said oh. She said she had been through a divorce so she understood. She said if this woman is his fiancée then he must have had an affair or something? I said yes. She just kept saying how sorry she was. I saw all the moms look at him and her as they walked up and then glanced over at me as to see my expression. I just smiled. They all looked back at him and glared. They knew. So H and OW successfully made jacka$$e$ of themselves.
I said hi to her and exchanged a few pleasantries. No scene was made and I certainly did not go out of my way to gush over her. H was putting on quite the act though.
Fruit and fruit tart.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
