2nd - that's actually funny. If I'm out somewhere and have a dull moment, I'll pull up the boards here on my phone to see if there's any new drama or breakthroughs. It doesn't keep me from having fun, just interesting...

I appreciate both you and AS pointing out my expressing frustration at irrational/illogical things. It's something I didn't notice, but it's very true about me, and I can definitely correct it.

I'm going back to the extremely dim, and am not gonna be lured back out. I've discovered after like 5 false starts that when one spouse is leaning towards divorce, and the other towards reconciliation, almost any conversation is not gonna be good. I kept thinking I could be so nice and PMA that W would just swoon over me - since she has admitted to liking me and being attracted to me. However, if W is illogical the next time I'm around her, I'll just say "Ok" and let it go! smile