Jon.. I was thinking about your sitch while I was out with friends last night (so much for my GAL lol) and I was going to write something similar to what AS said above. What AS said above really hits the nail on the head for you. Your w behaves illogically and you point it out to her in a moment of frustration. I totally get how you feel; our W's do a lot of similar stuff. But I think this is the place where you could make a significant change. Again .. Don't point out to your w that she is being illogical. You have done this several times since you began posting. I bet if you make this one small change, it will make a larger difference than all of your attempts at "going dim". Try something different next time and see what happens.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)
