Thanks NQ We had a brilliant day out today, the only thing that spoilt it was the weather - it rained all day! I went to a bookshop today, left the boys to look at the lego books and went off to find the self help section I bought co-dependent no more and how to heal your life. They had a huge collection of self help books in there, a lot bigger than in our small town. The film was good as well H rang today to find out what I'd bought my son for his birthday. He was moaning about money again. He said he's had to sell his DS just to get some money. I think he was trying to make me feel guilty for not lending him some and it worked! I did feel guilty, even though I shouldn't! I can't afford to give him any money anyway. He's not coming round tomorrow, he's picking my son up from college on Monday and taking him out for his birthday. He said he's still trying to save up for some new tyres for his car. He said he can't ask his mum as she's short of money this month as well. I don't feel sorry for his mum as she was making out that I was better off than my H and I'm not! He's obviously been spinning her some lies. I got home and there's some mail for H on the doorstep. It looks like it is from a counselling service as I recognise the stamp on the envelope. I wonder if they're going to tell him he's going through a mid-life crisis, lol. I'm pleased that he's seeking IC, but it all depends what sort of IC he'll get. I hope it's positive news for me and my son and they don't make things worse between us. anyway enough about him, I'm not going to let him ruin my day I'm still smiling, just having a rant I'm having a nice hot mug of tea at the mo and drying off. I left my heating on all day so it's nice and toasty in the house Dinner in front of the TV tonight watching X factor
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!