Yep, Bob definitely gives out compliments to everyone...and that must be a bit difficult for someone who is boning his 'beauties' backstage. Have you SEEN some of those contestants?? Oh, and we are both. We are Bob, we are the players...we are the game. There is a headache for ya.

Okay, your post is parallel to something that I've been thinking about lately (not golf related). How many suggestions can we offer before we cross the line of telling them what to do and taking over? Is this bad?

In my dilemma it is what we wear for this picture he wants taken for Easter. I know what we should wear, he says he doesn't have a clue, I tell him what I think and we go with my suggestion. Similar to the golf letter. Nothing mean, nothing vindictive, I gave him the chance to speak up...but...in the end I still decided and he didn't even have a chance.

Where does this begin/end???

"It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere." --Agnes Repplier, writer and historian