Be sure to document your little meeting w/the ow. Whatever you do, do not get into any disagreements w/your h in front of her. You never know what he's told her and I would bet he's setting you up so that he can have her as a witness.
Just smile and be your beautiful self no matter what they say or do. Be sure to sit somewhere else and not w/them.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.