I'm not going make this into a complaint post so let me spin this into a more positive take.

1. I want a partner who accepts his role as a husband and father.

2. I want a partner who partakes in activities suitable for a husband and father and not bachelor activities.

3. I want to have a good night's rest because I trust my partner will be safe and not involved in any life threatening situations.

4. I want a partner who actively involved himself with the daily care and wellbeing of his family rather than leave it to his parents to handle.

5. I want to be the best wife i can be. I'm not interested in being the best girlfriend.

6. I want a partner who is able to look beyond himself to see the bigger picture.

7. I want a partner who doesn't treat me like a superwoman. I want to be a partner not a elder sis or mum.

8. I want a partner who prioritises his own wellbeing, who can take care of himself.

9. I want a partner who respects my ideologies, dreams and goals even if he doesn't understand them.

10. I want a partner who shares the duties and responsibilities of parenting.

11. I want a partner who understands the appropriate behavior for a 30 year old married man with 3 kids.

12. I want a husband who wants a wife.

These are what I want. The affair is not the problem.


M-32, H-30
T-11, M-8
S8, D5, S4
1EA - 2008, 2EA - 2013