I've really been avoiding w. And, I've noticed she responds to anything I say or do with anger or a smart remark. Fine by me sweetheart. Stew in the mess you've made.
As you can see, there is no way for you to do anything right by W right now. Continue to keep far away from her stew pot! You're doing great.
I'm glad the family understands and is helping you. I also hope you are not allowing them to trash talk about W. I know you still love her.
I also would ask them to not try to convince W to return to the M. You want her to come back on her own, because SHE wants to. I know you understand this. I'm afraid you may be right about her needing to hit bottom. Bust On!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
Thanks FY! They do not trash talk her as much as talk about how frustrated they are with what she's doing.
I want to apologize to all of you for not giving you the encouragement and advice like you always do for me. I don't know why you do, but I'm grateful. I have all of you in my prayers.
It's been an emotional week. I was throwing football with the boys and escaped for just a moment. If I gain nothing else from this journey, I will always have the memories of spending so much time with my boys. They are really fine guys.
We are going down to a car show this evening. Going to eat funnel cakes and other healthy items. I hope the car with a lady in a bikini painted under the hood is back. The boys really enjoyed that last time. That alone may cost me the father of the year award. There's always next year haha
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later
