FY, it occurs to me that limerence and MLC, while in the denial, anger & replay stages are opposite.

In limerence, the OP can't do anything wrong.

In MLC, the spouse can't do anything right!

Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway