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Happy birthday FY! Go Libras!!


M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later
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Happy birthday FY.. have a great day!

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M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.

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Happy Birthday!


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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Thanks for the B-day well wishes everyone!

Originally Posted By: RosaLinda
I hope and pray that you get what you truly desire.


Me too... That would be W giving me my B-day spankings of course! Ok, maybe next year.

Originally Posted By: rH
Btw, why were you up so late? Did W not come home yet or did she already come home and do the late night debrief? Or is it none of my business?


Actually, she came home early, before I did. She was in the shower and then went to bed without a word. I've always liked to stay up and have a couple beers and read on non-work nights. Not just DB stuff. My latest favorite read is Mr Money Mustache. How to live happily and retire early and not be a complainypants.


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Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
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FY, it occurs to me that limerence and MLC, while in the denial, anger & replay stages are opposite.

In limerence, the OP can't do anything wrong.

In MLC, the spouse can't do anything right!


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'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway
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"In limerence, the OP can't do anything wrong.

In MLC, the spouse can't do anything right!"


^^^So True!!!

That's why the best thing we can do is concentrate on OUR life, and make it as fulfilling as possible. If they want back in... great! If not, still great!



We only have so much time here. We must make the most of each day.


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She's still worth it.

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Happy birthday, Forever~! You and your spankings - LOL!

My friend, I wish for you happiness and laughter. And may you always know how special you are. <3

I agree with you, you only get this one life, I say - live it up!

Have an amazing day. smile

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Happy Birthday, ForeverYoung. I hope you have a great day--however your W behaves--and that this year brings you much fulfilment.

I'm interested that you're having some car friction with your W as I am as well with my H, though it's of a different nature.

You've been incredibly patient. I really like following your sitch and look forward to hearing more from you.


Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012
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Originally Posted By: ForeverYoung
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That's why the best thing we can do is concentrate on OUR life, and make it as fulfilling as possible. If they want back in... great! If not, still great!

Yes!!! Agreed! DBing helps so much with that. Either way... we will survive!


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.

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Happy birthday FY!

I hope you had a great day, even without any spanking wink

So for today, party on as you are busting on smile


Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me

~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
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