Hi MntMan. I read you were a fellow Libra on FY's thread, and wanted to tell you I was so sorry you had the worst birthday ever. And now that I've read a bit of your thread, I see why
So sorry to read that your W did this to you and your boys. She is wrong and the other posters are right - they will not be "fine."
You sound like a strong, loving, wise and compassionate dad. Your boys will get through this because of your strength. Their loving grandma and uncle will help them too.
When your W finally wakes up and realizes the devastation and pain she has put her family through, she will be horrified. I think you will find it in your heart to help her, and to forgive her too. You just sound like that kind of guy to me.
Hang in there, you are doing a great job and can count me in with the rest of your fellow sufferers holding you and your sons up in prayer.
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17