Hi Jon.. just wanted to say I think you are doing a fine job at all of this DBing. I think you are on the right track with how you are acting. You are keeping uo your PMA which is great. You had mentioned that you used to measure things by how your wife reacted... I think you should still do that to an extent.. that is, keep doing things that elicit a positive response from her. "Test and Check" every so often to see what is working vs. Not working. That is advice I got from my DB coach. Keep up the DBing!

-cp

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.