It is such a relief to finally feel like you are not the crazy one.

Do whatever you can to support your D and your STBX relationship no matter how wacko he is, it is better for the kids.

I thought you handled the sitch well - there is no perfect way to defuse a 6 yr old when they are melting down.

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13