Today for the hour of coffee, I validated, was kind, complimentary, fun, great PMA, smile on my face. W was the one that brought up babies, the future, being together. She was the one that hugged me super tight. I left before W wanted me to, and didn't come back when she wanted. I listened to her complaints, and validated, and apologized. I was the PERFECT DBer. I did fall off the wagon a bit at the end when she went all crazy, but I've got that under control now. (or so I hope!)
Why she went all nuts (or as advina says: confused, uncertain, projecting for sure), I have no idea.
Every day seems like a baby step forward as far as DBing! I used to measure stuff on how W reacted, but now, I'm seeing me. I got messed up a little today, but sucked it up, had wings with my kiddos, and am having a good day!
